USELESS CHATTER . . . Listen to how “useless” it can be

“Therefore he that speaketh unrighteous things cannot be hid: neither shall vengeance, when it punisheth, pass by him. For inquisition shall be made into the counsels of the ungodly: and the sound of his words shall come unto the Lord for the manifestation of his wicked deeds. For the ear of jealousy heareth all things: and the noise of murmurings is not hid. Therefore beware of murmuring, which is unprofitable; and refrain your tongue from backbiting: for there is no word so secret, that shall go for nought: and the mouth that belieth slayeth the soul.” (Reference: Wisdom 1:8-11 )

You cannot hid the the dumb (or worse) things you’ve said. You can’t hid behind untruths. And you cannot hid yourself from being found out. You can’t avoid punishment for the things you’ve said that you should have. God will found out and so will the people around you. In addition, the results of your poor choices of words will be found out too. You will be punished for that.

There may well be people, for their own purposes, who listen and search out ill-chosen words and the consequences of them. These people may also add their punishment; or if you are lucky, just their discipline. Nothing that is said can be hidden; it will come out eventually. And the final consequence is the corruption of your soul.

Now, what were you saying?

May you, beloved, weigh your words carefully so that they may do you proud and glorify the Lord. Selah!

USELESS CHATTER . . . There is too much of it

“Why do you boast of evil, you mighty man? Why do you boast all day long, you who are a disgrace in the eyes of God? Your tongue plots destruction; it is like a sharpened razor, you who practice deceit. You love evil rather than good, falsehood rather than speaking the truth. You love every harmful word, O you deceitful tongue! Surely God will bring you down to everlasting ruin: He will snatch you up and tear you from your tent; he will uproot you from the land of the living. “ (Reference: Psalm 52:1-5 )

David, the attributed writer of Psalm, was angry. Someone had told King Saul that he had gone to the High Priest Ahimelech, and that meant King Saul would be coming out after David again. And not only need King Saul seek out David, but he punished Ahimelech and all his family by death. The verses of Psalm 52 were written with the perpetrator of these things in mind.

Historic Anabaptist Dirk Philips wrote, “. . . a perverse mouth will have no luck upon earth, and a spiteful evil person will be expelled and dumped. For we know that the Lord will carry out the affairs of the miserable and the poor rightly. Also the righteous will thank the name of the Lord and the pious remain before his face, Ps. 140:12ff. Again, what is an evil tongue and what can they execute? It is like a fire in genever wood, that at first will blaze up high because of the oil in it, but afterward dies down and goes out, Ps. 120:4. Thus will their slanders also disappear and melt and die with shame in themselves. But the truth will triumph and the righteous will remain as an olive tree in the house of the Lord and rely on his goodness eternally, Ps. 52:5ff.”

We hear often these days groups and individuals speaking against other groups and individuals. My Facebook page, and I am sure yours too, is filled with one person saying something against another. I do not tarry long over these posting, nor do I try to figure out who is telling the truth about who. Neither do I read many editorials or opinion articles. I don’t read or follow much on the news either. I have no desire to bring anyone to task for untruths or evil lies they might say. I don’t even set out to call down God’s wrath on them.

God knows what is true and what is not true. The Divine does not need me to sort it out, nor to be the agent of vengeance. It is enough for me, beloved, to know that the words I speak are true and uplifting. That is what I see as my task. To encourage you, beloved, to speak the truth in love and compassion, modeling God’s mercy and forgiveness. We have enough people telling us what is wrong in this life and in this world. And not enough people encouraging love, understanding and forbearance. May you beloved by a voice of gentleness in an unkind world. Selah!

USELESS CHATTER . . . And what its use can cause

“Come, my children, listen to me; I will teach you the fear of the LORD. Whoever of you loves life and desires to see many good days, keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies.” (Reference: Psalm 34:11-13 )

I want to go back farther, beloved, beyond the historic Anabaptists – who of course exhorted their children and each other to “keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking guile. Eschew evil, and do good: seek peace, and pursue it.” I want to go back to the writer of Psalms who extolled the Lord’s virtues and deliverance. Who sought the Lord and found the Divine who delivered the writer from all his/her fears. And in response to this blessing from the Lord, the writer of Psalms exhorts us to live good Christian lives, monitoring our tongue and as a preventive, our thoughts.

More recently, that is, five years ago I wrote the following.

“It seems to be a simple formula; tell the truth and speak only of positive things and you will have good days. But let us be sure that we have the formula going in the correct direction. It does not mean that all your days will be good because you have told the truth and have spoken only of good things. There will still be bad days, sad days, days that are filled with pain, sorrow, and all the other turmoils of life. But what you can be sure of is that all your days will be like that if you lie and seek out evil. You have a better chance of having good days if you put only good and truth into them. And that is all there is to say. “

May you beloved chatter with purpose, compassion, forgiveness, mercy and love. Selah!

WRATH . . . A Final Word

“You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger; for your anger does not produce God’s righteousness. Therefore rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls” (Reference: James 1:19-21 )

I liked the NRSV that Reading the Anabaptist Bible used. And if you guessed it was because of the salutation, “my beloved”, you guessed correctly. But beyond that salutation there are a fair number of important things to take note of. Such as;

Quick to listen – how often in our busy world have we glossed over what someone was trying to say, or assumed we knew what they meant. Or worse yet, we were thinking what we wanted to say and so did not pay attention to what the other person was saying.

Slow to speak – measured words, spoken only after you know what has been said, communicated, and meant.

Slow to anger – or perhaps never. Feeling anger only on someone’s behalf, and only when it would make needed changes or remedy a wrong. Not anger for our benefit or because of our personal agenda.

No more sordidness – clean, wholesome and without blemish.

No more rank growth – but healthy growth nurtured by the Spirit.

No more wickedness – but purity of heart, soul, and intent.

These things I commend to you beloved, that wrath might not be in your temperament. And that God’s wrath might not be directed at you. Selah!

WRATH . . . God’s

“Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. Because of these, the wrath of God is coming. You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips. Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge in the image of its Creator.”  (Reference: Colossians 3:5-10 [Emphasis mine])

This time, beloved, it is not human wrath that is being warned against but God’s wrath that is coming to the disobedient. Although the writer of Colossians also warns against anger and rage.

Do you know what angers God beloved? The writer of Colossians tells his/her reader that it is our earthly nature that is not curbed. But what other nature are we to have? One answer is found in verse 2 that comes before this passage; “Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth.” In other words, heavenly thoughts.

I have wondered just lately, how would we live if we believed that God/Christ was coming to earth again as in the final days before judgment. How would we live if say we had two years left in our “earthly nature”? Would it be the same way we are living now? And, would we live more accountable strict lives, being frugal and stoic in nature? Or would we live with abandonment enjoying the abundance and blessing we have now in material resources? I am not talking about sinning beloved; but sharing freely with others, volunteering our time, spending quality and quantity time with family and friends, not worry about tomorrow or any of the days to come. I do not think that would incur God’s wrath. Because, I think that was/would be New Testament living. And this is what the writer of Colossians was talking about.

But we are not in New Testament times. We are in modern times – earthly nature times. From what I read, since the time of the New Testament church we (meaning global society at large and not yours or my circles of faith) have drifted from living in anticipation of Christ’s return to living in a fallen and broken world. A world that incurs God’s wrath. Let it not be you and I beloved that incurs God’s wrath. Instead, may we instruct and encourage others to set their minds on heavenly things as we set our minds on heavenly things. Selah!

WRATH . . .? Turn away from it! Instead wink at ignorance

One man beareth hatred against another, and doth he seek pardon from the Lord? He sheweth no mercy to a man, which is like himself: and doth he ask forgiveness of his own sins? If he that is but flesh nourish hatred, who will intreat for pardon of his sins? Remember thy end, and let enmity cease; [remember] corruption and death, and abide in the commandments. Remember the commandments, and bear no malice to thy neighbour: [remember] the covenant of the Highest, and wink at ignorance.“ (Reference: Sirach 28:3-7 )

The book of Sirach can be difficult to understand, especially if it is an older translation. But if I had used a new version, that wonderful “wink at ignorance” would be lost. Instead I am using a paraphrase of sorts; Menno Simons wrote in “Exhortation to a Church in Prussia” a very understandable paraphrase of the passage. He wrote,
“He who seeks vengeance, says Sirach, will experience vengeance at the hand of the Lord, and his sins will surely be unremitted. Forgive your fellow his fault, for in that way your sins will also be forgiven when you pray. The man who is angry with a man, how dare he ask forgiveness with God? He who is like unto a man and shows no mercy, how dare he pray for forgiveness of sins? If he that is flesh nourishes and carries anger, who will forgive his sin and be gracious unto him? Ponder your end, and cease from wrath. Sirach 28.
Dearest brethren, do not think that I have written this admonition with a certain brother’s person in mind; not at all. But I have seen with my eyes and heard with my ears the heathen impurity of many a heart; the wicked pride and slander, yes, the cruel and bitter fruits that came forth out of the quarrel.”

Simons does not make mention of the “wink at ignorance” but then I would not expect a “serious” theologian such as Simons to use such jest. But I would beloved. I would.

Wink at ignorance. Of course, when one is truly sinful, then there needs to be confession and forgiveness. We must go to our brother or sister in love, telling them what we have seen. And give counsel and encouragement so that harmony might be restored. But never, beloved, never confront in wrath or anger, or use wrath or anger against anyone. For that is sin also.

If the offense is not out of a truly sinful or corrupted nature however, there is no need to confront the brother or sister. Instead understand that all of us may at one time or another (or may often) not respond or act in a way that is pleasing to others. Instead of taking offense, let it go. “Wink” at their lack of culture and pose – let it go. “Wink” at their rough ways – let it go. “Wink” at their faults and failings – let it go. If we do not wish to be judged, let us not judge.

May our Lord God who knows the true nature of each person’s heart teach you to “wink.” Selah!

 

WRATH . . . It is a “hard” thing to learn not to have

“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Reference: Proverbs 15:1 )

Advise from a historic Anabaptist mom, Soetgen van den Houte; “If you are crossly spoken to, learn to answer kindly, and you will be loved by all men; for humility and meekness are acceptable to both God and men.”

Advise from a modern Anabaptist/Mennonite mom; Beloved, it is a deliberate act and choice to respond in anger. You chose the words you use; make the wise and gentle choice.

There are a plethora of stories and allegories about using angry words. A compilation of them goes as follows. An elderly person wished to teach a young person to be careful what he or she said. The elderly person said take your feather pillow from your bed, and cut it open in the wind. The young person did so, and all the feather flew out and were scattered from miles. Needless to say, it made a mess and the neighbors complained. The elderly person told the young person those feathers are like your words of anger; you say them and they go flying away causing problems for others, but you may not see the problem. Then the elderly person said, the lesson was done. Nightfall came and the young person was getting ready to go to bed but remembered his/her pillow was empty. He/she went to the elderly person and asked what she/he should do. The elderly person said go gather up the feathers. I can’t said the the young person. No, said the elderly person you can’t, they are gone never to come back, and you will have many hard nights of sleep because you have let your anger get away from you.

Beloved, may you make wise choices, using gentle words that you might sleep well. Selah!